male . 28 . 1989 . pansexual

FEELS LIKE YOU'RE MINE

It's very easy to become acquaintances with Lee Jun, especially since he owns one of the most popular coffee joints in town. He has an easy, lopsided smile and an air of lazy friendliness that makes people feel welcome, which of course helps a ton with securing returning customers. However, he doesn't often make it a point to get to know people better, as he isn't really the type to reach out and continue getting to know someone if they don't happen to be where he is at the time. He's not really a bad friend, it just isn't really his thing. People who happen to cross paths with him a lot (whether they come into his cafe often or just keep coincidentally running into him at the same grocery store all the time) will naturally become better friends with him, as it's not hard to build a rapport with Lee - so long as you put a little bit of effort into it. Once you're friends you also get the benefit of a steadfast guy at your back who's pretty low maintenance - basically once you're friends, his friendship meter won't decay over time.

» FRIENDS OPEN
» FAMILY CLOSED
» ACQUAINTANCES OPEN

FEELS LIKE I'M YOURS

In the same vein, Lee doesn't have very many enemies - he tends to regard everyone with the same unbothered expression, and if people do annoy him he just lets them turn to white noise. It's a very effective way of dealing with difficult customers. However, if you manage to piss him off or get on his well-hidden bad side, you're gonna have a great time - and by that I mean you're gonna have a horrible, terrible, no-good very-bad day. Once you fuck up, Lee's really good at remembering exactly how you fucked up and will make sure you're reminded of it at every chance he gets. If you're an asshole he'll gladly reflect that back on you like a mirror.  The thing is he doesn't do all this viciously at all - he looks at it like a game, something entertaining to devote some attention to, and maybe that's why he's so good at holding that little grudge. I should mention though that if he somehow develops an actual arch-enemy he won't be laughing - he'll look at it much more seriously, and probably spend way too long weighing his options like a good ol' Libra.

» ENEMIES OPEN
» RIVALS OPEN
» ARCHENEMY OPEN

FEELS LIKE WE'RE LOVERS

Similar to his friendships, Lee has had many casual relationships over the past few years but was never really one for going deeper or settling down. Most of his relationships ended amicably, though he's had some bad breakups when his partners get hysterical after realising he's not as into it as them. He's not particularly looking for anyone to get serious with, but you never know - the right person could be out there somewhere. Lee can romance and/or be romanced, and is rewardingly receptive and appreciative of someone spending time on him. Time is precious, after all, and he does kind of like being spoiled a little. However, it would probably take some real dedication to get him to even consider a serious relationship. I'd prefer to let a relationship develop a bit in threads before tying him down, just to see if the two of them are a decent match or not. 

» INTERESTS OPEN
» CASUAL R/S OPEN
» PARTNER CLOSED

genderfluid (he/they) . 22 . 1995 . pan/demi

FEELS LIKE YOU'RE MINE

So... lemme lay this out for you right from the start. Jaewon isn't a friendly guy. It's not because he's an asshole or actively hates people, he just doesn't enjoy small talk. You know the initial stage when you meet someone and you guys kind of dance around each other trying to gauge if they're on the same wavelength as you or not? Jae hates that. He'd rather eat a can of worms. He doesn't like the false smiles and pretense that come with trying to make sure your first impression is a good one, even if they're those kind of harmless lies, so he doesn't bother with them. A nod of acknowledgement or a brief handshake, then Jae's back to his lecture notes or manning the cashier or whatever the hell he happens to be doing. Most people back off by this point but if you don't take his silence to heart and come back every so often, maybe skipping the small talk bit, he'll start to remember you. Might even greet you with your name next time. Perhaps a half-smile. Keep trying, because once you're important to him, you get to unlock a whole new layer. He can be very generous, loyal and open because he appreciates all the effort put in to break his shell. He might even hug you.

» FRIENDS OPEN
» FAMILY CLOSED
» ACQUAINTANCES OPEN

FEELS LIKE I'M YOURS

This is ice prince Jae we're talking about. He will very gladly pretend you don't exist at all. It's not hard to get him to put you on his shit list, all you really need to do is keep bothering him. Keep getting in his personal space, asking why he's so quiet, whether he doesn't talk because he can't speak English (how dare you), etc. Or his personal pet peeve -- ask him for his number. Congrats, you're on the shit list. Now he might as well have x-ray vision because as far as he's concerned, you're invisible. There's still a level beneath that, though, where shit list becomes hit list (I guess??) and I guess you become a pretty big deal to him once you reach that point. In a bad way, I mean. He might get a little obsessed with making sure you get your just desserts, it's probably gonna get a bit unhealthy for him. Jae has a bit of a temper specially reserved for that kind of thing and it really doesn't do him any favours - he gets pretty intense and makes a lot of promises and threats that he probably wouldn't to just any old person, especially ones he probably can't follow through. Save this child, basically.

» ENEMIES OPEN
» RIVALS OPEN
» ARCHENEMY CLOSED

FEELS LIKE WE'RE LOVERS

Surprise surprise, hidden deep under that glacier-like persona he's got going on, Jae's a bit (a lot) of a closet romantic. Perhaps I'd even venture to say he's a bit too idealistic about how relationships should go? Despite his initial cold outlook on meeting people, he's a little sap at heart and often spends long night-shift hours imagining one of those fairy-tale romances. The problem is he can get a little too needy and clingy, asking too much of his partner, then getting devastated when his partner grows distant as a result. He needs someone steady who won't get riled when he does, won't get fazed when he puts on the ice mask, but will still smile when he doesn't. Also someone who doesn't immediately ask him for his number just because he's got a pretty face. By now he's aware a lot of people are baseline attracted to him just because he's handsome, but it's more about whether they see him as an individual and not just a trophy to win and then put on a shelf. You'd definitely have to go through the whole friendship ordeal first before he'd start potentially developing feelings though, because as much of a romantic as he is, Jae won't (and can't) fall for anyone at first sight -- still hates small talk too much.

» INTERESTS OPEN
» PARTNER CLOSED